Love Bombing Explained

Introduction: A Psychologist's View of Love Bombing
Beware of love bombing being done by narcissists. It might feel good to hear love bombing remarks of declaration of love but you need to look underneath the words and see if the actions match with the words. Very important and make sure you do this every time you meet a person you get into a relationship with. If you do this you save yourself a lot of time, money, and grievances/heartaches.



Video by a Psychologist about Love Bombing. A Narcissist Love Bombing, Flattery, and Helpfulness

What is Love Bombing?
Love bombing is a form of psychological and emotional abuse that involves a person going above and beyond for you to manipulate you into a relationship with them. It looks different for every person, but it usually involves some form of Excessive flattery and praise. Narcissists love to mix love-bombing with lies.

Be Aware of Narcissistic Love Bombing
If a narcissist love bombs you, be careful, they are good at doing this and they do it because they want to get money out of you. Also, be aware of excessive compliments and false statements of feeling empathy but not following through with helping if you are in a bad situation.

If a narcissist wants to convince you that he or she loves you then make sure you examine this matter thoroughly. If there is a condition concerning money attached to this love, then you are being love-bombed. Can you love a person who uses love bombing on you? Yes, but do it from a distance.

Narcissists use Love Bombing to Get What they Want
What kind of people use love bombing? According to psychologists on YouTube, it is narcissists who do this.

After you have identified a narcissist's MO of love bombing, then make sure not to give him or her any money or any material goods that they demand.

Don't be Confused Between Superficial Love Bombing and Real Love
But don't confuse real love or kindness with love bombing. How can you tell the difference? A person showing true love has no requirements concerning material things and true love and does not ask for you to return a favor or for materialistic help you have given to a person to be returned because that is a trap that only a narcissist uses. They say, do this for me, pay $500 to me because it is required if we can remain friends. Any such similar comment concerning money or material goods is a love-bombing narcissists way to get you to give them money or material things and they are only interested in you to get something out of you. They will say they love you but their actions show it is a lie.

Solution on How to Deal with Narcissistic Abuse
You can pray for a narcissist who is love bombing you but that is about all you can do for them and make sure you distance yourself from this kind of person from the very beginning.

King David Knew About Narcissists
King David says in Psalms that the wicked are narcissists from birth: Psalm 58:3-5
The wicked are estranged from the womb: they go astray as soon as they are born, speaking lies. Their poison is like the poison of a serpent: they are like the deaf adder that stoppeth her ear; Which will not hearken to the voice of charmers, charming never so wisely."

My Own Experience
One of my parents would always have gifts for other family members like aunts or uncles but would actually deny me the things I asked for. That is a narcissist. He would flatter people, and love bombs, the relatives but behind their backs he despised them, mostly (not all but mostly).

Love Bombing and Hate Bombing
If you anger a narcissist who has love bombed you then this narcissist will hate bomb you. Some narcissists don't even use love bombing and they use hate bombing right away. Hate Bombing means the narcissist knows you have discovered what he or she is about and now is on the defensive.

Another Personal Experience Example
I was at the Dollar Tree store and I asked the cashier woman a question. I asked are you the manager? She looked at me angrily and said she had been the manager for years and I could tell she was angry for me asking. Anyway, I knew she was lying because I knew the former manager had left maybe 1 year ago.

Bottom Line About Love Bombing Dangers
Make sure that once you identify a person who loves bombing you keep your distance from that person because, most likely, they are unwilling to change.

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