How To Identify Narcissists


What is Narcissism?
The article says that the term narcissist is used "to describe a person with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) which is also commonly referred to as narcissism. The following are the narcissistic traits of a narcissist:
  • "Being Grandiose is Usually a High Belief in Self or Extreme Self-Importance. This person will Have a Warped and Extremely High Self-esteem
  • Arrogance (Overbearing Pride or Haughtiness)
  • Thoughtlessness (Having a Lack of Thought of How their Selfish Actions Hurt Others)
  • Selfishness of the Extreme Kind
  • Low-Empathy Which Makes a Relationship with a Narcissist Difficult to say the Least
  • A Constant Need for Attention and Admiration from Others"
The Best Way to Identify a Narcissist is by the Words and Phrases they Use to Communicate
The Word "Pissed" is a Sign of Narcissism: Personal Experience
First I will talk about my personal experience of how a narcissist has treated me. The one word I remember the most is that they use the word "pissed" a lot. They use the word "pissed" because this word is borderline cussing but is not viewed as cussing because so many people, possibly narcissists, use this word to show that they don't like another person's actions because it goes against their warped grandiosity. 

I know of a famous person who has used the word "pissed" and this person said he was pissed because another person failed to meet him/ dissed him for a meetup in a public scenario. This person told the audience "I am pissed." So I know for sure that "pissed" is a "word" in the language used by narcissists so if you are using the word "pissed" and you are not a narcissist then you can stop using it since it could be borderline cussing. I know for sure that the word "pissed" is used by narcissists because I know a narcissist who has used this word. If you also have experienced a narcissist using this word please leave it in a comment down below and I would be interested in hearing your experience.

I looked online for other words and phrases that narcissists use and here is my list. 

Common Phrases Used by Narcissists
  • "It's Not a Big Deal
  • It is Your Fault
  • I Was Joking
  • Don't Get Upset Over Nothing
  • You Are Imagining Things
  • Don't Be So Sensitive
  • Why So Defensive All The Time?
  • I Didn't Say That
  • I Will Never Lie to You Again
  • I Had No Idea This Would Hurt You
  • You Are The Only One Who Doesn't Understand Me (Or You Are The Only One Who Understands Me)
  • You Are Crazy
  • You Misunderstood Me
  • Well, You May Have Deserved It
  • I Didn't Hurt You, You Hurt Yourself
  • If It's Not On My Mind, I Don't Think About It, I Don't Care
  • Why Can't We Just Forget the Past?
  • You Don't Understand, I can't Be Alone
  • I Have Done Nothing Wrong
  • It Is All in Your Head
  • What You Are Saying Makes Absolutely No Sense
  • My Friends Hate You, But I Always Defend You and Have Your Back
  • You're So Insecure
  • I Am Like This Because My Parents Were So Mean to Me
  • You Are a Bad Person"
7  Signs of Covert Narcissism (There is Also Overt Narcissism)
1) "The 7 signs of covert narcissism include: Even though they have a vast social circle and a great number of friends, they cannot sustain deep personal, romantic, or professional ties due to their self-absorbed nature.

2) They possess attention-seeking behavior and always ask for more from others without contributing anything toward the relationship. This makes others uncomfortable and difficult to maintain a relationship.

3) They tend to hurt others’ feelings or cause issues within a group, but they blame others for their intentions and actions.

4) They worry so much about themselves to the point that they do not care about others’ emotions and frequently rely on others to ease their own negative emotions.

5) They indulge in friendship or a relationship for their own benefit and eliminate any relationship if it is no longer feeding their self-esteem and is beneficial. They pursue someone who can provide the attention they seek.

6) If they do not get an ego boost, they tend to criticize others in such a manner that it causes severe emotions of disgrace.

7) Despite being introverted, they do not apply the same standards to themselves as they do to others."

Also, They Won't Listen to You at All
Also, if you tell a narcissist not to do something and they do it anyway it is a way that they use to show you that their greatness overshadows your own non-importance. This is extremely disrespectful so don't allow this to happen to you.

There is One More Most Dangerous Sign of Covert Narcissism that You Need to Be Aware of: Love Bombing
This sign is so intense and makes the narcissist look like a nice person to you but you have to overcome it as quickly as possible because it is FALSE/FAKE, not GENUINE and it will keep dragging you into the narcissist's ugly web unless you have the power of God helping you get through this ugly situation (that seems to be so good and it is flattering to you) that I will explain to you now. This falseness is called "love bombing" and the covert narcissist will use this intensely to drag you in and you will be in awe of this person and unaware of how dangerous it is because the narcissist uses this love bombing so successfully. Love bombing always means the narcissist is going to ask you to do something for them, most likely financially, right after they are sure they have love-bombed you enough. It is called love-bombing because it is not love but it is a fake usage of "love" It is not genuine love and it is "love" with bad intentions.

Brainz Magazine explains,  "During the love bombing phase, covert narcissists use intense affection, attention, and flattery to manipulate you into feeling loved and adored. They want to establish a deep emotional connection quickly to gain control over your emotions and behavior."

You Need to Overcome the Love Bombing Phase as Fast and as Effectively as Possible
Once you overcome the love bombing phase you have overcome the most difficult part of a relationship with a narcissist. Love Bombing is dangerous because the narcissist is using it to get something out of you which most of the time has to do with money / materialistic things. They will try to convince you that with their "fake" love they will always adore you as long as you do what they say so be careful about this "love bombing" phase.  You need to not let this love bombing consume you and need to look beyond it and ask God to help you to get away from this person as far as possible. Never forget that narcissists are the masters of manipulation and deception.

The Number One Song That Explains What a Narcissist is All About
Hank Williams singing "Your Cheating Heart" will tell on you.
Here is the link to the YouTube video I normally post videos but this time I am giving the link only.

One of the Most Infamous Narcissists who Ever Lived was Judas Iscariot.

Narcissists love the world and everything in it and they have no clue what genuine love is all about. It comes from God.

Note 1
This isn't health advice and if you need health advice please read the articles I have posted in sources and/or go watch the videos on covert narcissism on YouTube which is where I have learned all my knowledge about narcissism. This article is for informational purposes only.

Note 2
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